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Roleplay and Fantasy

As a writer for the adult playground website, Juliland.com, I get many emails asking about roleplay and the importance of incorporating fantasy within relationships. A few months ago, I wrote a couple articles in response to these questions titled What's Your Fantasy? and Dress Me Up, Dress Me Down - both of which offer thoughts on changing one's physical appearance to alter a sexual scenario, as well as tips to incorporate in the bedroom. Nevertheless, I am so curious to see what the Cal Exotics community thinks about roleplay! What do you think makes a successful act of roleplay? Have you ever dressed up for a partner? Do you think fantasy is harmful or healthy in a relationship? Tell me your thoughts, I would love to hear them all.

Your's Truly,

Scarlett Stone

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Permalink Reply by Ted Furnis on April 19, 2012 at 8:29am

...I have a number of sexual fantasies...I'll tell you one...this is where I entice a guy and is gal up to my apt...and ask them if they have ever thought of having a really fun threesome...and they are completely into it...then as he and I pleasure his girl...I'm in her pussy and he in her ass...we start to feel each other's cock rubbing over one another inside of her...well, she sees our lust for this and one thing leads to another...she entices us to put on a show for her...she teaches us how to suck and fuck like we have never done before...this is a sexual scenario I love to think about all of the time...I think this would be the most fun to role play!

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Permalink Reply by Scarlett Stone on April 19, 2012 at 10:30am

Love it, thank you so much for your honesty and input, Ted. Get it!

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Permalink Reply by Ted Furnis on April 19, 2012 at 11:31am

you are very welcome...any time.

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Permalink Reply by Playtime Closet on May 28, 2012 at 3:55pm

role play is a great way to just get out of the box and try new things. I remember the first time we did an actual role play it we were both immersed in the characters we couldn't believe it was each other. it was extremely fun and really got us to change it up.

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Permalink Reply by Dick Ross on May 30, 2012 at 2:43pm

I think what makes roleplay works is commitment. When both people put thier all into the characters then the fantasy has a chance to take both of them to a new level. I have done a few role play scenarios and when we both suspended reality we were able to have an amazing time.

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Permalink Reply by Desiree Duffie on May 30, 2012 at 3:48pm

Fantasy is very healthy and great for relationships. I say if you have fun doing it, then why not go for it!

Great topic by the way! I checked out Juliand.com...wow! Very cool. Love the pics and the content.

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Permalink Reply by alejk anderson on May 31, 2012 at 8:46am

Role play allows the couple to use their fantasy,switch roles and experiment.It allows couples to

perform for each others enjoyment.

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Permalink Reply by alejk anderson on June 2, 2012 at 6:05pm

In my fantasy I would like to be a slave to a dominant woman who would give me oral sex with

fondling,kissing ,licking until I cum all over her pussy as she guides me to make her reach the point

of no return,

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Permalink Reply by Scarlett Stone on May 31, 2012 at 10:34pm

I love that all of you have shared your comments and thoughts! It's both necessary and amazing to have conversations such as these. Have any of you partaken in a role play experience? If so, share your thoughts! I want to hear!